1family has been on a mission in this season intentionally practicing being Polite, Appreciative and Grateful.

More and More, I’ve noticed that we are getting away from being polite. Polite is being courteous, gentle, respectful and treating others as you would like to be treated. In this day we live in politeness is not as prevalent as it should be and can be.

Politeness goes a long way, besides the fact that it feels great on the inside. It makes interactions with others easy and sweet. See, being polite doesn’t require the other person to be polite. The fact is, it’s not up to the other person to reciprocate, it only requires you to do your part. No matter what others are doing, experiencing their reaction has nothing to do with you. Yes, their reactions and responses can be indicative to what you've put out.

However, giving others grace benefits you in the long run.

Frankly, I wouldn't say we are excusing people from their negative reactions, we're just not affected and moved by them.

We determine our responses and our responses determine the outcome of a situation.

So, my recommendation is to lean on the side of how it affects you in the long run with the important part seeing pass people, places and things.

"With all this going for us, my dear friends stand your ground. And, don't hold back. Throw yourselves into the work of the Master, confident that nothing you do for him is a waste of time or effort." (1Cor 15:58)

Subsequently, politeness can be fruitful for others and at the same time create an atmosphere filled with peace, love and joy.

See, light is what drives out darkness.

When there is light no darkness can dwell there in. (1John 1:5)

“You are the light. A city on a hill cannot be hidden; nor does anyone light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on the lampstand, and it give light to all who are in the house.” (Matthew 5:14-16)

 Treating others the way you would like to be treated. This isn’t based on how someone treats you. I see this as maintaining your integrity, demeanor, and peace amid any situations. And yes, this isn’t the easiest thing to accomplish, but the benefits outweigh the possible moment of discomfort. 

“So, then in everything treat others the same way you want them to treat you.” (Matt 7:12)

I like to think that Jesus understands us, knowing that we need to overlook people, places and things while rising above those situations that are bothersome. He gives us the Jesus perspective, the ability to look over, above, and through situations that arise.

I personally, thank God that his expectation of us isn’t limited to our own abilities. 

We are required to rest, rule and abide with him. So, politeness will become our nature.

Next, we’ll talk about the next level of politeness which is Appreciative that results in a Grateful heart!!